Simplify

Ultimately, this issue found a solution. In the summer of 2012 we embarked on a seven-week sabbatical. It was a divine experience. And I can say that even after spending 8316 miles with my family in the mini-van. I’m in a jungle. It’s nighttime. All around me beady...

The Tiny Bathroom

As a child, if I had to choose, I would have said that I felt safer around Eddie than I did around my own grandfather. And he gave me a golf ball once. We are a family of white people. And we know that. On MLK Day we read stories to our children about civil rights. I...

Cleaning Closets

The loss of parents changes everything. Through the grief there comes a transformation, unsmiling and mostly forced. It truly is a new chapter. A new life. A new existence. Two weeks ago my father lay dying at St. Francis Hospital in Tulsa due to the progression of...
Jesus Wept

Jesus Wept

Each drop weighs more than a full bucket. To release them brings lightness. But they return. And the process continues until the day when you notice they aren’t as heavy as they used to be. Yesterday I spent half an hour sitting in my truck. I was in the parking lot...